8 Tips to Plan A Perfect Sweet 16

January 11, 2020  •  Leave a Comment

Sweet 16 PhotographyCandid photo of Angelina dancing on stage with her friends and family at her beautiful snow white themed sweet 16 party. If you've ever attended a Sweet 16, you quickly notice that it can look very similar to a wedding. For some girls, turning 16 is the highlight of their life up until that point (wait until they turn 21), while others consider it a regular birthday just as special as any others. Planning a sweet 16 can go from exciting to overwhelming very quickly and below I have a little guide to help parents keep a little money in their pocket and a little hair on their heads (no more hair pulling Mom). Try these tips for a smooth planning process and successful party:

1. Budget 

Tell your teen how much you’re willing to spend, and involve her in divvying up where it goes. Some teens insist on having a limo while others care more about having a party that is over six hours so she can dance into the night. Like any party, the sweet 16 can be extremely costly if there aren’t boundaries. Including your daughter in the party's budget discussions will help her understand why you can say yes to some requests and have to say no to others. Plus, no sense in going the extra mile for features your daughter will not appreciate. 

2. Guest List 

The size of your guest list will likely be affected by your budget. In most cases, the more people your daughter invites, the more the party will cost. Some families save up to host a big bash, inviting 100 or more boys and girls.

Consider your daughter’s desires, though and consider her number of friends. If she has a smaller group of friends, then that may be beneficial in choosing a small venue and smaller food list. 

 

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3. Date and Location 

Choosing a date and venue can be a challenge depending on where her birthday lands on the calendar. If it happens to fall around Christmas or during other busy times of the year, you'll need to plan accordingly. 

 

Be sure to book the location well ahead of time so you’re not competing with office holiday parties or graduation events. Consider sending out "save-the-date" cards or e-mail messages if you’re worried about guests being overbooked. A good rule of thumb is to give guests between 3 and 6 months to save the date. 

 

Depending on where you live, there should be a variety of possible venues available. If you're stuck or everything is booked, consider  your backyard or ask around for ideas from family, friends, and co-workers. Some venues to consider include: 

  • Barns
  • Community centers and halls
  • Dance clubs
  • Hotel ballrooms
  • Public parks
  • Restaurants
  • Sports facilities
  • Your backyard

If you're in NY or surrounding areas, consider looking into Regency Party Hall, Antun's, Occasions, Astoria World Manor, and Terrace on the Park --all located in Queens, NY. 

You can also look into finding venues listed on Peerspace.

 

4. Theme 

Your daughter may think she's too old for a party theme, but it can be fun and more grown-up than the princess parties she's enjoyed in the past. These are some fun ideas for teen party themes if you want to go this route:

  • City lights (picture a Paris or New York City theme)
  • Hollywood or rock star
  • Luau
  • Masquerade
  • Mardi Gras
  • Pretty in Pink
  • Zombie

The theme can also be a chance to highlight a teen’s interests. For instance, if she loves swimming, you can go with an underwater theme. If she loves to read, base the theme on her favorite novel (Harry Potter forevaaa!) You can even go with a favorite color, song, movie, or sport to personalize the party.

 

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5. Vendors 

Since some sweet 16 parties are as elaborate as weddings, consider attending a bridal fair. This is a great opportunity to compare prices among caterers, disc jockeys, and other service providers.

You can save even more money by tapping into the talent that already surrounds you. A friend could help you prepare food ahead of time and offer storage space in her freezer. The birthday girl might want to download her music playlist instead of hiring a DJ. You can even take a class together and learn how to bake and decorate a fancy cake. But I must warn against hiring a friend or family member that is not a professional photographer to capture photos. Besides risking the possibility of this family or friend canceling at the last minute (which they can because sometimes they are not being paid or something more important to them comes up) and risking that this family or friend will miss moments because they have a close connection to the birthday girl, Sweet 16s are expensive affairs and you will want a professional third-party photographer to capture the fruits of your labor. After the day is complete, you teen will eventually forget about the food and she will forget about the music but photos last a lifetime and you will want those images to be perfect. 

 

Also *cough cough* I'm available!

 

6. Menu 

Choose foods hat are easy to eat standing up. Guests likely will be milling about rather than sitting down for a formal meal.

One popular idea for sweet 16 parties is to have a grand dessert buffet or cake table, complete with themed tablescapes and a variety of sweet treats. The cake can serve as the centerpiece for the dessert table. You can make the cakes multi-tiered, but in bright colors rather than white to distinguish them from wedding cakes. Yet, a smaller cake can be just as sweet!

Cupcakes are another popular choice and are often decorated as elegantly as a wedding cake. A popular money-saving tip that many Sweet 16 moms do is rent a beautiful dummy cake for photos (you can find some on Etsy) and decor but buy an affordable sheet cake and have the venue staff slice it up in the back. (Genius!)

7. Itinerary 

Write a rough timeline for the party so everyone knows the general plan. Consider things like:

  • What time will the party start and guests arrive?
  • Will the birthday girl make a grand entrance? If so, what time?
  • Any special performances?
  • Will there be the traditional changing of the shoes and tiara placing? Father daughter dance?
  • What time will you serve dinner?
  • What time will you light the 16 candles?
  • What time do you cut the cake?
  • What time will the party end?

8. PARTY FAVORS

Party favors—also known as lolly or gift bags! This step is optional—a little thank you for your guests to collect when they leave. Whether it’s edible or not is up to you, there are so many options. The Sweet Sixteen party favour could match the theme of your birthday party or your personality, which ever you feel like. You can get party favors and ideas from Party Rush located in Queens, NY. 

And that’s it! Keep in mind that sometimes things don’t always go the way you want them to, but you can make the best out of these unexpected changes. Hopefully by using these tips, you can be more prepared for anything unplanned, and have the most unforgettable birthday party yet! You’re only sixteen once, so what are you waiting for? Time to get planning!

 



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